Tickling is one of those classic childhood games that can sometimes feel more like a punishment. But surprisingly, a lot of people actually enjoy it!
So, What’s Tickling Anyway?
Tickling is when someone gets a kick out of the sensation of being tickled, and it can even lead to sexual arousal for some. The term comes from the English word “tickling,” which pretty much means just that.
Why Do People Get Turned On by Tickling?
For many, tickling is tied to childhood fun. But in some cultures, it’s also been used as a form of punishment or even torture. It seems like both sides of the coin can shape a tickling fetish: the joy of those playful childhood moments and the discomfort that can come from more intense tickling.
In a study, half of the folks said that tickling scenes in cartoons sparked their interest in it. Others connected it to games they played as kids. About 70% of participants said they enjoyed being tickled!
People who love being tickled often dig the physical sensation and how their body reacts. Many also get a thrill from feeling helpless and submissive, and just the thought of being tickled can be a turn-on.
On the flip side, those who enjoy tickling others often get a kick out of seeing their partner’s reactions. They find the touch exciting and love the idea of having someone at their mercy, just waiting to be tickled.
Want to Give Tickling a Try?
If you’re thinking about experimenting with tickling, here are some tips:
- Talk to Your Partner: Just like with any BDSM activity, make sure both of you are on board. Ask your partner if they’re up for a little tickle fun before diving in.
- Find the Sweet Spots: Check out sensitive areas like the soles of the feet, ribs, and underarms. Pay attention to how your partner reacts and adjust your technique accordingly. Other ticklish spots can include the ears, neck, back, inner thighs, shoulders, knees, elbows, and wrists.
- Use Some Massage Oil: A little oil can amp up sensitivity, making the experience even more enjoyable.
- Mix Up Your Techniques: You can use your fingers, nails, or even your tongue. If you want to get creative, try using a brush, feathers, or a Wartenberg wheel (a little spiky wheel you can roll on the skin).
- Get Some Restraints: Handcuffs, soft ropes, or cuffs can add an extra layer of fun. Just make sure to read up on safe tying techniques!
- Try Sensory Deprivation: A sleep mask or noise-canceling headphones can help your partner focus more on the tickling sensations.
- Be Mindful of Your Partner’s Comfort: Even though laughter is common, tickling can also be uncomfortable or stressful. Keep an eye on how your partner is feeling and stop if they ask you to.
Have fun exploring!
